Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Finding time to breathe


Apologies for keeping quiet! Oruro, our new home, is extremely high and for the first time ever the Soul Touchers have had difficulty talking. What´s more we have actually been so busy since arriving here that we´ve not had time to do some mandatory and necessary things such as wash, manicure our nails, brush our hair or regrettably write to you all.

More so than the altitude though our time here in Oruro and Sucre has been breathtaking for lots of reasons. Primarily because of the vast amount of activities, projects and work that we´ve been witnessing taking place amongst the church here.

Our leaving Sucre was bittersweet. Although looking forward to meeting new people and new challenges in Oruro we were gutted to be leaving those we grew to call family in Sucre. Our last day there was a real blessing and we spent it with the community of CCE Church at Horna Casa. A day that could have quite easily been completely chaotic (given that there were more than 100 excited little children there and that is not to mention the adults!)was in fact a celebration, a party of hope and a reward for all those who´d put so much effort into refurbishing the home for the children who now squashed in to enjoy games, songs, bible teachings and cake...lots and lots of cake. What a joy to see hundreds of dirty little fingers clenching fists full of sweet cake and cupping hot chocolate rather than the dirt we´d witnessed them clutching only weeks earlier as they played with the pigs. And so we left sadly but full of hope that God is doing wonderful things there.
Oruro is cold – but only in terms of the weather. Within the space of one week we´ve received a warm welcome. Firstly by our host family. Having reluctantly left Sucre Lorna and I boarded the 9pm night bus from Sucre to Oruro. Departing the terminal equipped with layers of clothing and fully charged ipods (recently improved/updated with Spanish worship thanks to Becky Train!) we waved “Hasta Luego” to our friends and family.

Reminiscing on how unbearable the bus journey to Sucre had been Lorna and I took necessary precautions for the return trip – layering up clothes, filling up hot water bottles and tucking our vests into long Johns! We had not however prepared for the orchestra of “roncing” (snoring) that was going to take place on the bus that night – snoring I might add that no manipulation of volume control on the ipods could quieten.

And so we arrived in Oruro, where since we´ve bared the cold, warming our spirits and hearts with the enthusiasm of the church and work of Latin Link:

¨Bamos, bamos¨ Our 5.30am alarm, our rather the screech of Ximena our sister here, wakes us from our sleep and reluctantly (very reluctantly) we scramble our way out from the layers of blankets. Although the initial cold of the morning is painful or ¨torturous¨(as Miss Main described it) it´s not long before we are wrapped up in the warmth of natural hot spring waters found in the mountains of Oruro. It´s early but the youth group with whom we´ve come to the springs are excitable to say the least. After trying to teach each of them to swim we braved the baths. Yes communal bathing is an experience which I´m assured is all part of the ¨rich tapestry of life¨. Although enjoyable and definitely memorable we´ve safely sown that stitch in our life's tapestry, at least for the time being.

And so the afternoons have been spent visiting children´s homes, the prison, youth groups and the homes of families. It is going to take us some time to document all that is being orchestrated by Julie Noble (Latin Link) in partnership with the local churches and overseas missionaries. But for those of you who haven´t seen let us explain a little.

Firstly the prison. Although neither of us have a great deal of experience in working with prisons in Britain I think we can safely say that the prison at home is nothing (NOTHING) like the prison here in Oruro, other than they both are institutions that incarcerate criminals. Entering the prison would ordinarily have been quite a daunting experience (had we not had God right there with us!), given that the entrance opened onto a large communal area (big playground like area) where most of the prisoners were congregated, talking, buying things form the various tiendas (stalls) set up around the edges or spectating the game of football that was going on in the centre of the grounds.

Safely directed round the prison by Gabriela Gomez (staff, lawyer and angel who works for Arbol Angel) we were able to interview a few of the parents. I say parents because here in Bolivia many children are raised in the prison, for several reasons. Whilst speaking to the women prisoners, most of whom were washing cleaning or cooking while we spoke, we learned that many of them actually became pregnant whilst incarcerated. Meaning that when the children are born they stay in there with their mothers (fathers, most likely one of the other prisoners). In some instances when the fathers enter the prison the mothers, unable to support the children financially, abandon them. In these cases the children live alone, in houses or on the streets. Although it sounds almost unimaginably horrific, the thought of innocent young children being raised in that environment, there is hope, hope much brighter than the darkness that tries to extinguish ours.


Arbol Angel (Angel Tree Project) is a project that works with the children whose parents are in the prison as well as the parents themselves. They offer counselling, scriptural teaching and where they can financial support. One relationship we were particularly moved by was that of Jenny Zurita (psychologist who works for Arbol Angel) and Alexa, the father of seven children, six of whom live on their own having been abandoned by their mother. Lorna and I visited their home, some thirty minutes away from the prison where their father is. I´m afraid I´ll have to allow photos to express what I am simply unable to articulate.


Having distracted the five large dogs guarding the gate of the home with bread Lorna and I made our way into the small bedroom which they all share. Four of the children are under the age of 12 and so you can imagine the smell: no parents there to clean up, care or protect. What made us joyful amidst the smell, mess and apparent lack of hope was the support Arbol Angel was giving this family, individually. The staff know, care for and love each child individually.


Partly because they get to know them in the Arbol Angel centre. There the children are fed, taught and given much needed attention. To our disbelief the project is currently reliant on ¨offerings¨and donations from Latin Link supporters, or fund raising the staff there are able to do.

As is the compassion project. Compassion, an international missions organisation, works here in Oruro to support, teach and care for some 400 children. You may have noticed that much of the work here concentrates on the children, they, in the world over, are the ones who suffer because of our actions...or lack of them. One person´s actions that we´ve been encouraged by are Chris Saunders, a volunteer. Chris is here as a Latin Link volunteer and his role consists of working in the compassion project, working with the youth in the CCU and this week updating the Soul Touchers on all that is going on in Oruro.
As you might have reaslised there´s a lot! And so after a busy, busy day we, Soul Touch huddled back under our suffocating amount of “traditionally Bolivian blankets” and reflect on the presentations we have had the oppertunity to give here. Both in Universities, the CCU and the church. Wearing equally culturally appropriate and very necessary (llama) woolen hat, scarves, gloves and thermals we, “hoddit and doddit”, shed our usual glamorous (yeah right) exteriors opting for clothing that provides heat .

Finally we´ve loved living in the home of our host family here in Oruro. Having spent the past week recovering form the severe drop in temperature and drastic rise in altitude Soul Touch are almost ready to move on again. Before we close our eyes we find time to cosy up for a bed time-story, literally: “The Shack”. A novel gifted to the world by William P Young and to us by our friends in Sucre, is tonights most read.

Night night Sweet dreams. Love you all Erica and Lorna xxx

Sunday, April 20, 2008

Healing Hurts

¨At the age of 23 the Doctors found a tumor, the size of a football, in my stomach. They confirmed that it was operable but I had only 15% chance of survival from the surgery. I felt completely alone; helpless. I remember clearly in that time God´s presence was with me and for the first time in my life I prayed.” Just a few words from a precious, powerful and completely necessary testimony given by Ruth Such at CCE Church in Sucre, Bolivia, on Sunday.

God thought Ruth´s testimony necessary for me to hear, for the congregation at CCE to hear, for you to hear and I believe the church world wide to hear. Thank you, Ruth, for sharing it. I pray God´s blessing upon the ears who hear it and the souls that are blessed by it. As I share with you, as Ruth shares with you, I ask that you would allow yourselves to do more than hear: listen; let the words penetrate into your soul allowing them to heal your hurt as the experience of them has Ruth´s.
Ruth´s testimony is necessary because it contradicts what we think we know. Logically we separate those two feelings; hurt; healing. For most of us there is a definite distinction between the two and most often a considerable amount of time. The necessary (or one of them) component of Ruth´s testimony is that she shows the two can be felt in unison; if we allow ourselves to feel them that is.

I don´t think I said a complicated prayer. I think I said ´God I need you´”. (Ruth Such)

The process of Ruth´s healing started with the recognition that she was hurt (For Ruth, her hurt was pointed out to her, it was made obvious. It displayed itself physically as well as spiritually). Although few of us can imagine the physical and emotional pain Ruth felt at that time, in the moments she was told of her 15% chance of survival or of the impossibility of having children post operation, I´m sure that there have been times in you life that you´ve experienced hurt, excruciating pain, possibly even a hurt that you can not diagnose. One that you´d be mortified if a Doctor, friend or pastor probed and detected it. As long as it lies there undetected, untreated (by God) it is not being healed. For us personally it is important to recognize the pain and the root of it in order to allow the healing to begin. As a church we often allow pain to fester instead of allowing our faith to free us from it.

As soon as I open the door to God he answered. It was like he´d been waiting for me to ask; to invite him.” (Ruth Such) (see Matthew 7:7)

For some of us asking for help is an inconceivable concept; sometimes more so for the church than individuals. I want momentarily to divert the attention away from Ruth (I think we´ve invaded her privacy enough for just now) and onto me.
Simply because Ruth´s testimony stirred my heart and made me think about the times in my life I´ve been hurting. More often than not (regrettably) I´ve allowed myself to get so hett up in the root of hurt (or with the person – let´s be honest in families/churches people are usually the primary cause) that I´ve prevented myself being healed. Unlike Ruth I´ve kept the door shut with locks ´n´bolts on ´n´all!

I´d like to illustrate something using my big toe. As ridiculous and almost inappropriate as it sounds it will hopefully clarify a few things.
My big toe has been one of my most recent hurts. Well toe nail to be more vulgar, I mean precise. Manicured nails are something I love. Not obsessively but admittedly a French manicure set and nail file snuck it´s way into my back pack amongst my years worth of malarial tablets, a pair embarrassingly practical hiking boots and my mosquito net. Since then it has successfully seen its way around the world and unlike the mozy net , which I lost within the first three months, the manicure set is a precious possession for several justifiable reason. One: it makes my hands look pretty even when building, painting, cleaning or making mud bricks. Secondly in the rare moments (very rare) I do paint my nails I am momentarily distracted from thinking about Soul Touch, the church worldwide, you at home or God – or at least not as intensely.

Anyway during our Kiwi experience (whilst we were leaders on a SU camp in New Zealand) my big toe nail (vanity) was damaged or rather mutilated by a canoe whilst carrying it through a field – the part of the Kiwi experience not advertised in the brochure! And so for some three months I didn´t have a toe nail. This was a distressing experience. Primarily because of the humiliation – everyone in NZ wears thongs (flip-flops/sandals) and so it was ugly obvious everywhere I went. Then there was the sheer discomfort of it growing back. As my new and improved toe nail grew in – pushing the damaged one out- it hurt. My healing was hurting me. That is not to say that I am not considerably grateful for the process at the end of which I have a brand spanking new (not yet manicured) toe nail! I no longer wear my practical hiking boots to hide my stumpy toe but rather out of necessity in fear of loosing all ten toes in the freezing altitude of Oruro.

One detail I failed to mention then I promise no more toes – the day I helped the healing process. I distinctly remember sitting on my bed in Tim and Carmen´s apartment in Buenos Aires (Argentina, March) Lorna, Carmen and I all inspecting the toe nail – we even have it on film! I remember explaining to Carmen that my new nail seemed to have stopped growing. At which Carmen came towards me with scissors as if by invitation, “The old nail is rotten and stuck at the top,” Carmen explained in English with a beautifully expert sounding Brazilian accent whilst cutting the nail ruthlessly and tearing the skin beneath. “Ouch!”

I don´t think for one second Carmen meant to hurt me but she did. She removed what was bad in order to allow growth and healing. Carmen´s ruthlessness was necessary for growth. I agree ruthlessness within the church is not something we should practice or encourage – that would be dangerous, “ unchristian” and possibly even damaging for our (the churches) reputation.

On the contrary ruthlessness is often masked or even compensated with sensitivity, which, although very rarely talked about can be even more dangerous. Think about areas of your life and your church where growth is being prevented because of dead skin. Situations where sinfulness is not being dealt with but rather being allowed to fester. I wonder had I left my nail (promise last reference) would the new one have eventually given up trying to grow? Perhaps, perhaps not – I´m sure some of you more scientifically minded could enlighten me – anyway the point is not me – or my foot – it´s the church.

How many new things, new ideas, new Christians are prevented from being nurtured, allowed to grow, because rotten, sinful things sit in their way? Because we Christians are so frightened of the little ruthless pain it may cause that we allow sinfulness to infect us, stumping our growth. Just a thought; I´m not pointing any…toes! Actually I´m reminded of myself, of times when I have been a dangerous Christian – not the good ´dangerously in love with Jesus` type of Christian but a foosty rotten one.

One that preferred to be sensitive rather than ruthless – it´s sometimes easier to offend God than those around us – his wrath isn´t so immediate, it doesn´t come in the form of dirty looks and unfortunately his word doesn´t spread quite as rapidly as the words on the lips of gossips. I believe that now is the time for the church to do a lot of its healing. Like Ruth it´s time to cry out to God – he´s waiting to be invited.
In his book Church Distributed, Dr Joel Hunter (whom I´ve recently been informed is very handsome just for the record, thank you Becky Hunter) details the difference between expelling sin from the church ( identifying rotten toe nails) (see 1 Cor 5:13) and simply having difference of opinion. He does so more expectedly than I ever could so I suggest you read that book if you haven´t already.

Furthermore I´d like to draw upon one more testimony of amazing healing we heard this week. Whilst in Sucre Lorna and I enjoyed the hospitality, stories, teaching, beauty and pizza of Pastor Philip Train, his stunning wife Jan and far too intelligent daughter, Becky. On invitation to lunch one Saturday we enjoyed the company a couple we were introduced to us by the Trains. Wendy and Jurgen live in La Paz, are Canadian citizens and are currently documenting a major reconciliation process taking place in Potosi, Bolivia. The reconciliation is between the Bolivians and Spaniards. A process that no doubt is hurting a lot of people whilst providing necessary healing.

One of the most interesting things for me listening to Wendy and Jurgen tell a little of the huge amount of work going on there was that they highlighted the communities involvement with the church. The healing process (the reconciliation) was instigated by people within the church and was largely planned and supported by them but it is being demonstrated within the communities by the people in the communities. As we have witnessed in the church (read Sam Andres Argentina)and as expertly illustrated by Dr Joel Hunter reaching out to the communities is the churches responsibility and in short reason for existence:

The scripture tells us about Christ going out to be among the people. He did not stay in one place expecting the people to come to him (Mark 1:38). As the church becomes more involved in the world, it will also become more like Christ. (Dr Joel hunter, Church Distributed, 2007)

Yet still ¨the benefits for going outside for inside maturity¨ are questioned by members of congregations (Dr Joel hunter, Church Distributed, 2007). But why? Perhaps these communities expose hurt within the church that we´re trying to ignore. Perhaps they will question us and notice rotten bits about us that we don´t want anyone to see. Perhaps it’s much easier for us to stay insular and continue hurting.
I have learned (have been taught by many wiser than myself) that by doing so we´re not only hurting ourselves, denying others the opportunity to join God´s Kingdom but more dangerously we´re preventing growth (I´m not talking about numbers I´m taking about spiritual maturity).

Lastly one wee story from Ruth, she and Dean encouraged us greatly mostly through their sharing of recourses and stories. A few years ago their Church in England , also St Andrews, was being renovated in order to accommodate the growing congregation. Instead of hiring another larger venue whilst the renovation was being done the pastoral team decided to divide the church into mid sized communities (St Andrew´s Chorleywood) and each had it´s own name. The groups then hosted themselves out in the community. Some met in schools, some in homes and some in coffee shops. Amazingly the church didn´t self destruct, it didn´t suffer from lack of ´mega church sizeness¨. The church grew. People were given new responsibilities and through this confidence. What´s more people who had never been to church before joined the small groups. It grew so much that after refurbishment the building couldn´t contain it´s new ¨community¨ based congregation.

I was slightly nervous about coming on mission because for the last seven years I have been in remission and have had to go to a specialist doctor regularly for check ups. God knew my worry and two days before we were set to leave for Bolivia I went to see the specialist. ¨Ruth you no longer have to come for check ups. Your body is completely healed.¨” (Ruth Such)


Ruth and Dean are now loving life in Sucre, Bolivia. I don´t doubt for one second that her (their) journey hasn´t hurt but their healing is remarkable and it shines for the entire world to see. I am imagining the day that we will say that about the church. A church that is so well because is has allowed itself time to heal it´s hurts. A church that has recognized and dealt with the damaged , foosty parts in order to allow the best bits to grow. A church so bright that all the world will see.

For the record the new and improved toe nail is now manicured and is displaying itself proudly around the streets of Oruro as you read this. Unfortunately for the locals it hidden beneath layers of thermal socks!

Love you all in abundance Erica xxx

Tuesday, April 8, 2008

Our eyes are the windows to our souls...

For the purpose of this entry I’m going to pinch a lot of what other people have said because remarkably –although some of them strangers – their words seem to encapsulate what is going on in my little life in Bolivia. Neither of the gentlemen I refer to know me but their words have impacted my life deeply whilst reading their books.

You might think I have nothing better to do with my time than read books. The appearance of this sleepy city Sucre gives the distinct impression of tranquility, calmness and -on days when the students are not protesting here – peacefulness. However, it’s quite the contrary. The white paint on the walls of this city create an annual blankness hiding the hustle of activity that takes place behind them and muting the colourfull conversations we´ve been having all week with our friends. These conversations and a very busy schedule are the reason I don´t actually have time to read as much as I’d like. However, in the moments I do steal with William and Joel (no unfortunately not handsome – or they may be, like I said I haven´t met them- companions William and Joel are authors) I feel blessed. Unlike books I have read in the past theirs don’t transport me to other realms nor do they allow my mind to escape the reality I am living in. They do the complete opposite. They emerge me deeper into my own reality allowing me to fully experience it. “Enjoying where I am on the way to where I am going!” (Joyce Meyer). Isn´t that something we all desire to be able to do; to enjoy today whilst looking forward to tomorrow. What´s more that´s what God intends you to be able to do (Jeremiah 29:11). However for many of us this is a romantic notion, getting through the day is a chore and who wants to think about tomorrow?....

I do and in the past two weeks we´ve met others, behind the blank canvases, who are also really experiencing today! Upon these canvases the congregation of CCE church are painting with their words and actions everyday. Couples, children, teams and individuals in CCE Church are creating something in Sucre that the world most definitely wants to see.
Starting in the literal sense with Horna Casa. A house, building, well place situated high on one of the “breasts of Sucre” (Ruth´s words not mine). Sucre is a city that rests in the depths of many stunning mountains and Horna Casa overlooks it. Horna Casa looks positively prehistoric in comparison to the clean whitewashed streets in the city centre making even the little tiendas and market stalls in the plaza look distinctly cosmopolitan. That was until they started to paint.

I think now is an appropriate time to introduce Ruth and Dino (Dean). You´ll become familiar with them as you read this – they are really active in orchestrating a lot of what is going on here in CCE at the moment. I previously described this match – literally made in heaven – as “beautiful”; a very immediate and accurate observation I stick by. However since our initial introduction, over chicken kebabs, these friends; mentors; teachers; angels, have shown us how beautiful they really are. Their words have breathed life and encouragement into Soul Touch and their superior drama skills have had us laughing until exhaustion.

Not only because they invited us to their early (Saturday) morning drama group but because the sketches they taught the young people, although weighted with meaning, were hilarious when demonstrated by the talented twosome. Furthermore their tactics at involving us in extreme sports (they had us rock climb vertically up one of the “breasts” in extreme heat and altitude – yes they are hyper active and have energy that knows no bounds- have been much appreciated, as was the invitation for pizza after the excursion. In the two weeks we’ve known this pair they’ve introduced us to many people all almost as inspirational as themselves. Starting with a group of Brazilians, here as part of their missionary training. The team from Brazil are the ones painting (transforming) Horna Casa. And so Ruth, Dino the Brazilians and the Soul Touchers, equipped with paint pots, tools and wheelbarrows of enthusiasm set off for a days work.


The team (all twelve of us) packed ourselves into one vehicle. Whilst the boys hung fearlessly onto the roof rack, relishing the adventure of ascending the mountain with only a metal frame ( and a prayer) between themselves and the 2000ft vertical drop back down, the girls, Dino and Pastor Phil squeezed onto more comfortable seats in the 4x4. As we drove up the hill Ruth debriefed us about Horna Casa and the project there: renovating the old house into a community centre providing teaching and much needed attention for the community. As her passion for the project overflowed into the tiny (already claustrophobic space) her eyes welled, “The people are poor Erica. The people are poor!" She yelled over the screaming exhaust (the car didn´t take to kindly to the extra weight….the paint not Soul Touch!) whilst I dodged her- beautifully extrovert – hand talk. Trying to imagine what she was describing I pictured favelas, slums, camps – just some of the poverty we´ve witnessed in the ten months of Soul Touching. “The children play with the pigs, ¨ she explained as the car came to a sudden halt, naturally offloading the Brazilians boys in the back.

As we picked up our paint and tools we trudged past the children she´d described and like she´d said they were- and probably still are- “playing with the pigs”. The only thing more revolting than the stench at Horna Casa was the sight of children living and playing in the pigs pit. Immediately the team got to work, effortlessly fitting back into the roles they put down with their brushes as they left the day before. A couple of the boys set about finishing the path they were constructing outside, whilst others cleaned, painted; painted and cleaned.

As they started work Lorna and I listened and filmed trying to capture some of the transformation that is taking place there. We pray we have captured a little of what is hugely amazing! Don´t stress we did eventually put down our cameras and pick up some brushes, helping to colour the beautiful murals Dino and Ruth were outlining on the walls of the classrooms (to be). Delicately, nervously - I was terrified incase I spoiled what is seriously a masterpiece- I coloured in the bright green grass beneath Jesus` feet. As my brush swept beneath the feet of the coffee coloured Jesus I felt eyes upon me; eyes everywhere. Huge eyes feeding huge souls in little dirty bodies. The eyes of children who´d left their card board boxes, in which they usually spend their days. Children who´d dismounted the pigs with which they played, now scanned the room we were painting.
They watched Pepe and Gonzolo as they flattened the ground before carefully laying each brick. They watched Pastor Micky and Pancho (his brother) as they constructed the partitions that will separate classrooms, giving more opportunities for group work. They watched Karen, Becky, Adriana and Hugo washing the windows and floors in preparation for paint. They watched Gideon encouraging his friends whilst he himself painted the high parts – the tallest of the group- and Ruth expertly colouring the loaves and fishes. Lastly their eyes fixed on Dino as he swept a huge rainbow across one of the empty walls. A rainbow. A symbol of hope.

Lorna once wisely quoted: “The eyes are the windows to our souls”. A statement that has directed our mission. As my eyes looked upon those children my soul crunched. Until I traced the direction the children´s eyes. They stared not at the rainbow, the giant colourful symbol of hope but upon the hands drawing it. Their eyes transfixed on the faces of the team who were transforming their little village and as my paint ran out beneath Jesus` feet I thanked him for reminding me.

For reminding me that the paint was transforming more than the walls. It in truth is simply a mask for the real reason we were there: to be his hands and his feet. Yes, the paint brightened the place making it functional, essential if any real ministry and teaching is going to continue there, which I know it will. But the real reason the team were painting was because they have a desire to make relationships with the people there and to demonstrate practically the love of Jesus. Relationships are the second reason my life has been too busy to read – no not romantic relationships settle down this isn´t Daniel Steels your reading! My name`s Erica Bonnar big, huge, verging on annoying fan of Jesus.

Last Sunday Lorna and I had the massive privilege of speaking to the congregation of CCE. It was an amazing evening sharing with them a little of what we are doing, showing then photos of where we have been and hopes of where we are going. I loved that evening. Lorna shared her testimony which blessed everyone and it was a real time of fellowship. But for me the greatest gift was that our host family came. Marisol and four of her six siblings, her children, nieces and nephews took up a large part of the congregation. For me them being there was just as important as anything we said or sang that night. They are a family, like many here in Bolivia and at home, who in the past has been divided by denomination, possibly even hurt by the church. What I saw on Sunday was a family united by the church. A family brought closer than ever being healed by the church: “ I suppose that since most of our hurts came through relationships so will our healing.” (William P Young, The Shack, 2007)

As I read this statement recently in Ýoung´s awesome fictional novel ‘The Shack` I was reminded of the church, of Marisol´s family and of my own (you reading this). It´s so true. For a long time we´ve offended each other, upset those sitting in the pews and on occasion even rejected those who refuse and conform to our ways. Thank goodness I can talk about this in the past tense (well mostly). On Sunday we stood before a congregation full of differences: different colours, different opinions (on music, dress code and more I´m sure) and from different denominations. A congregation who, that morning, had been fed by a pastor desperate to communicate the kingdom of heaven and their role in preparing for it.

During the week at Horna Casa I witnessed a congregation in preparation for exactly that: `Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and there was no longer any sea. I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying “Now the dwelling of God is with men, and he will live with them. They will be his people and God himself will be with them and be their God. He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” He who was seated on the throne said, “I am making everything new!” Then he said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.” Revelation 21: 1-5 (Further ref 1 Thess 4:16 2 Peter 3:10)

If this doesn’t excite you check your pulse. This is what we´re living for! As I painted the feet of Jesus on a wall I saw people walking where he would have walked; walking for him. What´s more I saw children watching – probably not fully understand the team’s reasons or motivations for being there as my new pal Willie says: “Grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.” (William P Young, The Shack, 2007)

I´m sure to the world a lot of what your doing right now doesn´t make sense, perhaps even to your own families! That doesn´t mean they don´t see it. They do and like the eyes of the children their eyes witness your works and their souls are fed.

Finally I want to share with you one more wee thing I´ve learned about relationships – I say that like I´m an expert when realistically I´m anything but, but I love to learn. It´s probably easiest for me to draw upon the most obvious relationship in my life right now, no not Jesus but she´s trying hard, Lorna Main. A friend and loyal servant with whom I´ve spent every minute of every day (literally) for ten months straight. I know it´s hard to imagine but I can count on one hand the hours we´ve spent apart. Together we´ve shared ideas, bible verses, meal times, mattresses, clothes and on occasion even bath (bucket) water – well would you want to go pump the well twice?!

Honestly we´ve loved it but that doesn´t mean it´s not been difficult. For those of you who have met us you´ll know we´re different. For example Lorna finds it easy to get up at 5:30 am to finish our Spanish homework as I reluctantly (big moan) follow. Lorna has natural comic timing and always has those around her in fits of laughter, myself included. She has an awesome gift of listening; I’m known to wake her in the wee small hours of the morning (1am or 2am, sometimes both) just to have her listen to me. Lorna brings peace. And me…well I talk incessantly as you know. These are but a few differences and we´re only two. I come from a family of six so I know difference trust me. I also, because of my family, know how to recognize what a blessing difference can be. As Dr Joel Hunter describes, “The other must be enough like us to be intimate but different enough to be necessary!” (Church Distributed)

I know I go on a lot about the arms and legs thingy (body of Christ, 1 Cor 12) but it´s only because I am excited about its relevance for us. Nobody wants to be in a relationship where they feel redundant, unnecessary. The reason for this is that we were actually made to be in relation, contrary to the Miss/Mr Independent conscience that is given by the world today. As a church being able to recognize our need relationships is our greatest strength.

I love the fact that Jesus instructed us to be like little children and so I´m going to illustrate our need for relationship from a child´s perspective. The other day Lorna and I were walking home from school and we passed two children, also walking home from school. They had stopped outside a house and were yelling at the window upstairs. Immediately as Lorna and I passed they directed their yelling at us, “Tocar el Timbre”. One of the little boys tugged Lorna´s jacket pointing to the bell above the door, far out of reach for his little (he´s a child and Bolivian so he´s pequeño) frame. The child recognised his inability to reach the bell, his mother´s inability to hear his call – remember the yelling- and Lorna´s ability to help. Thank goodness for tall (gorgeous) blond greengos eh! It´s one example of a child´s natural humility. His humility enabled him to ask for help and what´s more he recognized who was able to help him. In doing so he involved Lorna and she was happy. Hear that “happy”, “involved”. Characteristics I´ve been learning about this week.

Starting with the welcome we´ve received from Ruth and Dino. They´ve involved us and in doing so made us happy (ridiculously happy!) Then there´s the church here. Made up of a mishmash of Christians, Bolivians, Brazilians, English, Irish, Chinese and now Scottish, they’ve welcomed us. A congregation who come predominantly from Catholic backgrounds and families yet recognize this difference and the foundation the Catholic Church has laid here: “ Relationships that hold together inspite of their differences have the potential of helping people within those relationships home their beliefs and their choices. Once that is accomplished the opportunity to serve others together becomes an option” ( Church distributed) This is so true of the churches we have seen around the world…starting in St Andrews Scotland!

Finally my relationship with Lorna. A relationship that teaches me new things everyday. In comparison to a world wide church it’s a small relationship but realistically not all that different: “ We reinforce each other because we are communicating the same thing in slightly different ways and in different contexts” (Church distributed.) So how do Horna Casa, Ruth and Dino, the door bell scenario and my relationship with Miss Main all fit together. I suppose the only link is me. I have been blessed by what I´ve learned from them all. In reverse order: the child´s example of humility, Ruth and Dean´s example of the importance for us to involve, Lorna´s example of relationship (it´s no easy task listening to me for ten months) and finally the team´s example of serving. We need humility to be able to involve. We need to involve in order to strengthen, make and heal relationships and we need relationships in order to truly serve. I love you all and need you more than you’ll ever know! Erica x